Kelly is the daughter of Jim and Cyndi O'Hare of West Des Moines. She is a first grade teacher at St. Augustin School in Des Moines.
Jeff is the son of Mike and Julie Grabe of Kingsley. He is a K-8 P.E. teacher at St. Anthony School in Des Moines. Jeff also coaches freshman football at Dowling Catholic, and is an assistant wrestling coach at Saydel High School.
The couple are planning a May 26, 2007 wedding in West Des Moines, and will make their residence in Windsor Heights.