The wedding reception was held Sept. 6, 2003, at the Ameristar Casino in Kansas City.
Parents of the couple are Linda Silvey of Kansas City, Mo.; Ernest Myers of Smithville, Mo., and Jim and Rita Heimsoth of Le Mars.
Jay is a 1993 graduate of Le Mars Community High School and a 1997 graduate of the University of Northern Iowa. He is a sales representative for Medrad, Inc.
Melissa graduated from North Kansas City High School in 1996 and is presently at home with their children, Elijah and Loudon.
The couple is at home in Kansas City, Mo.